The Assumptions that drive our therapy
Wednesday, October 10. 2007
There was an interesting development to a previous blog entry about what I’m listening for when I’m working with a client. It came from a response to it on our members’ forum from Peter Salisbury, who said that when Richard Bandler (the co-founder of NLP) works with a client who has a problem, he has one phrase in his head, which is "How are they doing it"? On the face of it this doesn’t sound so different to what I said is in my head when I begin, “What’s this about?” But I found myself thinking a lot about this subtle difference because I realised how such a short phrase that had flowed so casually from my fingers while typing was actually saying something fundamental about the assumptions that underlie my approach, and, without wishing to speak for Dr Bandler, does the same for him.
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